We’ve all experienced pain and heartbreak, one way or another.
There’s always the possibility of hurting one another in a relationship, especially when your relationship becomes a breakup.
He can hurt you, but you can also hurt him back unintentionally.
So when you do really hurt him, this can feel just as devastating as being hurt – sometimes even more.
You loved him with your entire being so really, hurting him is the last thing you want to do.
However, it’s going to happen, especially when you break up.
In this scenario, most probably you broke up with him, but it’s also highly possible that he broke up with you because of the unbearable pain you caused.
In this article, we’ll be talking about the signs you really hurt him and how you can make it better.
11 Signs You Really Hurt Him
1. He doesn’t want to see you
One of the signs you really hurt him is when he doesn’t want to see you.
He comes up with every excuse in the book not to cross paths with you or see you entirely.
Similar to how you avoid someone who hurt you, the same goes for him.
He might’ve stopped going to the places you used to hang out, just in case you’re also there.
He doesn’t want to bump into you accidentally, so he avoids any scenario or situation he might be forced to see you.
Also, if you directly ask him to see you and he ditches every time and stops talking to you altogether, chances are you hurt him pretty badly.
The idea of seeing you causes him pain, so he’d rather not endure that, at least not again.
2. He ignores you whenever you’re around
Similar to not wanting to see you, he also ignores your existence entirely if you hurt him pretty badly.
He knows he can’t bear the pain of seeing you, given you broke his heart.
So if the circumstance arises and he really can’t do anything about being in the same room as you, he chooses to ignore you altogether.
If you even try to speak with him or engage in a conversation, he’ll just ignore you.
Even as you’re standing beside him. He won’t show signs he’s aware of your existence.
This indifference is one of the evident signs you really hurt him.
No matter how many months or years you’ve been together, he’s stone-cold when you’re around – and that’s just how badly you hurt him.
3. He stopped dating entirely
When you’re looking for the signs you really hurt him, it’s when he stops dating entirely.
You hurt him so badly that he doesn’t want anything to do with love or experience it again.
When anyone has been hurt terribly by the person they love most, they start to withdraw from love and refrain from experiencing it again.
So when he refuses to date and hasn’t dated for a significant period, he’s still hurt by your relationship and by you.
You broke his heart, and he doesn’t want to feel that way ever again, at least for a significant period.
The only way to avoid feeling that is to keep love at arm’s length altogether.
In other words, he has an immense fear that another girl will hurt him the same way you did. \
He just doesn’t want history to repeat itself.
4. He gets into a lot of rebound relationships
On the contrary, he would likely get into multiple rebound relationships to regain a sense of control and power.
Being hurt by you felt out of control for him, so he wants to regain power by getting into many flings.
So there are two ways he shows he’s been hurt pretty badly by you – when he stops dating entirely and when he gets into rebound relationships.
If it’s the latter, you might see him dating multiple girls, none of which he’ll commit himself to.
Again, he’s scared of the same thing happening, so he wants to be pulling the strings this time around.
The fact you hurt him makes him think he needs to be the one in control to avoid feeling that way again, which is why he gets into fling after fling.
After all, they say the best way to get over someone is to find someone new.
5. He deletes you from his socials
Another one of the signs you really hurt him is when he deletes you from his socials.
Again, he can’t tolerate seeing you, and this applies even to social media.
He doesn’t want a reminder of the pain you caused in his life, and he can only gain inner peace by deleting or blocking you from his socials.
This might seem harsh, but he knows it’s the only way he can stop being hurt by you, even from miles away.
He knows that even seeing a single post from you will bring back all the memories, both the good and bad ones.
He’s trying to prevent that by deleting you from his socials entirely.
He might even delete your pictures together to help him move past the heartbreak and pain you’ve caused.
6. He posts…
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