Are you tired of karmic relationships and failed relationships that are simply not aligned with your Higher Self?
If this is the case, it may be the time to learn how to attract your Soulmate into your life and create that amazing relationship from scratch!
In the spiritual community, everyone is buzzing about how to attract your Soulmate or your Twin Flame and what to do if you want to attract them.
I am here to present you with a different approach!
Since you probably already know what to do to attract your Soulmate, if you haven’t drawn them to you yet, I will share with you the things you shouldn’t do if you want to be successful in this spiritual quest.
Because you may have been focusing on what you have to do for a while now, not you haven’t been aware that there can be certain things you are doing that are sabotaging this process.
This being said, let’s have a look look at the things you should avoid doing when trying to attract your Soulmate!
10 Things to Avoid In Order To Attract Your Soulmate
#1. Low Self-esteem
There are times in life when we have lower self-esteem than usual.
This is usually the consequence of trauma, complicated situations, disappointment, and toxic relationships.
However, while it’s normal to experience periods of low self-esteem from time to time, you have to do everything in your power to raise your self-esteem and your vibration.
With low self-esteem and a low vibrational frequency, you will continue to attract toxic or karmic relationships that will leave you defeated and disappointed.
To raise your self-esteem, you will have to work on that trauma and pain which is causing low self-esteem.
You can either do this by yourself, or you can do it with the help of a therapist.
It doesn’t matter how you choose to do it, as long as you do it effectively.
Also, consider raising your vibrational frequency in order to help with your self-esteem and in order to be able to attract better into your life.
When your vibration is higher, you are more aligned to love, peace of mind, and all the beautiful things. Thus, you are more likely to attract them into your life!
❤️ Related: How to raise your vibration instantly: a super easy and powerful method
#2. Beating yourself up
Another thing that can prevent you from attracting your Soulmate is if you continue to beat yourself up over past mistakes.
We have all made mistakes and bad choices in the past, but if we keep holding onto those mistakes, we will never be able to move forward and enjoy a fresh start.
If you don’t stop beating yourself up, you will not be able to create a better life for yourself – because the energy you could be putting into creating this dream life is going towards blaming yourself.
The key to stopping beating yourself up is to forgive yourself.
Forgiveness is a great tool that can purify your entire life, allowing you to start fresh and have a better relationship with yourself.
Thus, if you want to attract your Soulmate, you must forgive yourself and stop beating yourself up for your past mistakes.
Accept that you, just like another human, are meant to make mistakes from which you learn and grow.
Instead of beating yourself up and blaming yourself, just take your lesson and move on, creating the life of your dreams with your newly acquired wisdom.
#3. Not setting healthy boundaries
Setting the right boundaries is one way of deciding what we allow and don’t allow in our lives.
When we allow anything in our lives, whether it’s good or bad for us, we send the message to the Universe that we will accept just about anything – and that we don’t have standards.
That’s when many things will start coming towards us that is not meant for us and are not beneficial.
When we set healthy boundaries, the Universe is also selecting what it will send to us.
Because everything is energy, and being selective is one way of attracting better.
#4. Not expressing your needs and desires
Not expressing your needs and desires in a relationship is similar to not setting healthy boundaries but can potentially be even more harmful.
If you tend to stay in relationships in which your needs and wants are not expressed and not taken into account, you basically stay in relationships in which you’re only fulfilling the other person’s needs and desires.
This means you allow the other person to use you, and none of you may not even be aware of that – at least not at a conscious level.
This will create a lot of frustration, disappointment, and anger, and as emotion is energy, will create a lot of negative energy around you.
Needless to say, these energies will push you further away from your attracting your Soulmate and more towards the spectrum of toxic…
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