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When the Law of Attraction isn’t working for you, you may feel disappointed and dissatisfied with life.
But because what you think and feel creates, you only end up attracting more disappointment and dissatisfaction.
It’s like a vicious circle you’re caught in, but you want so desperately out of.
You keep focusing on what you want to create – the loving relationship, the financial abundance, the perfect house – but you keep seeing reminders of the things you dislike about your life – the nights home alone, the pile of bills, the problems with where you live…
And therein lies the problem…
The Law of Attraction isn’t working for you because you’re filling your thoughts with things you dislike. You keep feeling unhappy when you look at the things in your life you want to change.
You can visualize all you want, create all the lists you want, do every possible Law of Attraction technique you can get your hands on, but if you keep focusing on what is wrong with your life, you’re wasting your time!
If you keep focusing on not having the relationship you want, you will create more of not having the relationship you want. If you worry about how you’re going to pay your mortgage, you will create more experiences of having trouble paying your mortgage. If you fixate on how where you live is too small, too noisy, or what not, then you will create more of those instances. Instead of creating what you want, you will create what you don’t want.
Whenever you focus on what you dislike about your life, the Law of Attraction isn’t working to bring you what you want because you are using it to create what you don’t want. That’s why the Law of Attraction isn’t working for you!
Instead, you need to start focusing on the good things in your life, no matter how small they may be.
- Did a stranger unexpectedly smile at you?
- Did someone have a kind word for you at work?
- Did you do something nice for yourself today?
- Did you get a good parking space?
- Was something on your shopping list unexpectedly on sale?
- Did you have a good hair day?
- Was your dog/cat/child/roommate happy to see you when you got home?
No matter how unrelated it might be to what you want to manifest, be grateful for the good things in your life. The more grateful you are for them, the more you create opportunities for other good things to come to you, including the very things you desire most.
Decide to find something good in your life.
Decide to find as many good things as possible.
Make it happen.
And before you know it…
You’ll no longer be able to say the Law of Attraction isn’t working for you.
Instead, you’ll be wondering how great it can be.