Have you and your partner broken up?
Do you still love them and want them to come back into your life?
Do you wonder if feng shui can help you change your home so that your ex will come back to you?
If so, the answer is definitely yes!
Here are some ways to use feng shui to get your ex back!
Of course, before we get started, I have to make one thing clear to you: there is no way to use feng shui to control another person.
Using feng shui to get your ex back is about how to set your home up so that YOU feel better.
And in doing so, it will make it easier for you to repair relationship.
Setting your home and bedroom up for a happy relationship means it will be easier for your ex to come back (or even to call in new love if you so choose!)
So let’s get into the feng shui tips!
Feng Shui Tips for Getting Your Ex Back
One: Clear the energy.
Clean and declutter your space as thoroughly as possible.
Cleaning and decluttering stir up the stagnant Chi (life force energy) and moves it out of your home.
If you can, open your windows and doors to help the Chi move throughout your home.
This lets the old energy out so that new energy can enter. You can also smudge your home to get rid of negative energy.
See these posts for more info:
How to smudge your home to get rid of negative energy.
Clearing space for what you want.
This step is VITAL if you want to cleanse the negative energy of your relationship and your breakup.
Think about it this way: A BIG piece of getting your ex back is getting over the feelings of breaking up.
You have to start with a clean slate, and the break-up is a way to do that!
But you also need to cleanse the energy of your home (and life!) so that you can make room for a fresh start.
When you’re decluttering and cleaning, pay special attention to the following areas:
Your home’s love and relationship area is important for all of the relationships in your life, including your romantic relationship.
And your bedroom is important for your relationship with yourself AND your partner.
Your front door is how fresh energy enters your home and life.
And mirrors represent how you see yourself.
So make sure everything is clean and tidy.
Two: Remove Items That Can Hold You Back.
Now that you’ve cleaned and decluttered, it’s time to take a look at those areas of your home again.
(Or if you share a home – pay special attention to your bedroom or where you keep your personal belongings.)
You’re going to look for items that can cause stuck energy.
Look for:
- Broken items
- Items that represent your breakup (it’s okay to have items that represent your relationship. You just want to look for items that represent the sad times in your relationship.)
- Items that have negative meanings for you (even if they have nothing to do with your relationships.)
- Books about your breakup or self-help books about bad relationships.
- Pictures of old relationships from before your ex.
- Pictures of yourself that represent the “old you” or pictures of you with people you no longer have relationships with (like old friends, old schoolmates, old jobs, etc.)
Essentially, anything that represents being stuck in the past or being someone you no longer want to be.
Even if you have happy memories attached to these things, sometimes they can hold you back!
Take these things and either fix them, get rid of them, or if it’s something you don’t want to get rid of, put it in a box.
If you’re going to keep them, tie a red ribbon or piece of red string around the box.
This will symbolically trap the energy in the box so that it doesn’t affect the rest of your life.
Three: Go through your closet.
Your closet represents who you are in the world.
It’s how you see yourself, what you wear in different areas of your life, and how others see you.
Clean and declutter if you didn’t do that in step one.
Remove anything that doesn’t make you feel great about yourself.
Also, anything that ties you to past relationships.
Do you have jewelry or clothing items from exes?
Items that you no longer wear for jobs you no longer have, or hobbies you no longer do?
If you don’t want to get rid of them, put them in the box with the other items.
Everything that remains, tidy and organize it as best as you can.
You are just removing anything that is attached to your identity that could be holding you back!
Four: Look at your bedroom with fresh eyes.
Because your bedroom represents YOU but also your relationship, you want to make sure that the things in your room represent who you want to be, not who you used to be.
It’s important that there aren’t things in your room that represent you being single, sad, or lonely.
Especially symbolically, because it can reinforce the feeling that you are alone and your…
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