Before you think of giving up on manifesting your specific person, there are a few things you should consider. In this article, we’ll explore several things that might happen once you give up manifesting your SP.
1. You may not want them anymore
The first thing you should know is that after giving up on manifesting your specific person, you might eventually realize that you don’t want them anymore.
Now, depending on your reason for giving up on the manifestation, this may already be in play, or it could take some time to become your reality.
But here’s a common situation I see all the time…
Someone is manifesting their SP, and they go at it hard for a few weeks.
Doing all the affirmations and exercises, keeping thoughts positive.
They see a bit of movement in the right direction, and the SP comes back in some format (or at least shows signs of turning like maybe unblocking on IG or sending texts.)
Then, bam!
They start to get the ick and realize the SP isn’t all that desirable.
Now, if you’re obsessing over your SP and can’t imagine feeling this way… let me assure you that you may reach a point where you just don’t want them anymore.
And that’s fine!
This is one of the best things that can happen because it means you are actually reclaiming your power and no longer operating from a place of lack.
Which sometimes means you wind up getting the upper hand in the situation (whether you want it or not.)
2. They may come back into your life
Oftentimes, as a result of #1, once you give up on manifesting your SP, only then do they come back into your life.
The reason for this is, again, that you are no longer operating from a place of lack.
You see, by default, an SP manifestation is automatically based on a feeling of lack and unfulfillment.
You are pining away for someone else. You realize the angst and sadness and loneliness and a sense that your life isn’t complete without them.
So you’re spending tons of time focusing on what you don’t have.
You fantasize about what could be and how much happier you would be if only they were in your life.
As a result of this focus, you’re actually attracting more feelings of lack and unfulfillment.
But once you give up on manifesting your SP, for whatever reason, your subconscious mind doesn’t automatically forget or release all the work you’ve done.
If you’ve spent, let’s say, three weeks doing affirmations and exercises and visualizations, after giving up on your SP, your subconscious mind will still see you two together.
Since you don’t care, you’re no longer actively working against yourself.
It can be frustrating that once you let go of your manifestation is when it comes, but that’s how it goes sometimes!
The things that you don’t have strong, heavy attachments to are the things that come.
So yes, once you give up on manifesting your SP – you might expect them to come calling asking to see you.
3. You will see signs and symbols related to them
Another common occurrence after giving up on your SP is that you will start to see signs and symbols related to them.
This could be in the form of physical things like seeing their name or hearing a voice that sounds like theirs.
It could also take the form of a song on the radio or a commercial that’s playing that reminds you of them.
You might start to …