If the Law of Attraction seems to be functional for your best friend but not you, you should not ask the Universe, “Why me?” but identify your patterns and mindset instead. There is something incorrect about your thinking which you need to fix right. For example, some people think positively and achieve success, while others only think about the negative and blame destiny or themselves or the government for it. If you find yourself typing, “Why am I not manifesting while others are seeking blessings?” then this is the time you read this article carefully.
Remember that self-doubt is like the stepping stone to the downward subconscious, and you ought to fix it right. When there is negative self-talk, you can find yourself in a rut and a dark zone that is hard to escape, and it ends with a loop of negativity. If you think you have reached the dark tunnel and cannot see the light, you can find this article valuable.
This habit is a major obstacle to the non-manifestation of your desires and dreams. It brings more unfavourable experiences, and you attract the negative emotions of despair, anxiety, and over-thinking because you do the same the whole day. You attract what you are as per the Law of Attraction, and so, self-doubt needs to be out of the scene here. If you have chosen to be a pauper, your thoughts will be the same and send a similar kind of energy and vibration to the Universe. However, if you choose to be a King or a successful and noble person, it is likely that you will vibrate with abundance and success and seek the same in return from the Universe.
So, you need to choose your role after careful thinking. If you are average, you will attract average. If you think you are excellent, you will attract more excellence in your life.
We will give you a simple exercise to do in your daily life. Observe the friendly people around you and notice the kind of roles they play. Someone will be giving you positive vibes and is always cheerful no matter what kind of obstacles they face. In comparison, someone is always cribbing about their life even if they have ample bank balance and a good and caring family. You will notice that these persons behave as if they have been conditioned with such beliefs since childhood.
It is all about bad habits and their linkage with the Law of Attraction. Bad habits stop you from manifestation, but they can be rectified with a little bit of consciousness and careful consideration. We don’t tell you to strive for perfection because no one is perfect. But you can surely move forward and progress from the ‘before you’ and try to be a better version of yourself.
So, let us now jump to the lousy manifestation habits you need to stop and be proactive instead.
11 Bad Habits You Need to Stop for Faster Manifestation
1. You do not set clear and specific intentions
Clarity is the most prominent pillar on which the Law of Attraction works. You need to set an intention with faith and clarity. The more specific you are with the intention, the more the Universe will know about your intentions and desires. It is like placing an order at a restaurant. If you ask for something sweet and delicious, the waiter will serve you with a variety of dishes out of which you like only a few. But if you ask for a pudding, the waiter knows what you want and will serve you one.
So, when you have a desire, write it down clearly in a journal or a note. You need to clearly note down what you want. Not something like ‘lose weight’ but more specific like ‘lose 10 pounds in 2 months.’ Once your clear intention is set, you need to put them in your thoughts. For instance, if you want to manifest a life partner, but all you think about guys who cheat on their girlfriends, you will never meet a trustworthy person then. So, you need to get rid of such negative thoughts when you set an intention on the paper.
Faith is the drive on which the Law of Attraction is based. Hence, it is essential to bestowing faith in the Universe to manifest desires fast. Moreover, setting intentions clearly is like a visualization exercise. When you see yourself as a slim person, it is likely that you are visualizing yourself on a weight loss routine.
2. You use negative words and phrases in your self-talk and affirmations
Self-talk is great, but if it contains more negative words like ‘not’ or ‘anymore,’ then it could be toxic and not helpful. It takes sweet time to use positive language and incorporate it in your affirmations.
For example, if you like a coat at a mall, you might think, “I can’t buy it because I cannot afford it.”
Not affording is certainly not the thing you would like to manifest. So, stop saying such negative things to yourself or your friends. It is okay to slip out sometimes; you cannot be perfect in a positive language in a day. Just don’t push yourself hard, and you will almost be there. Instead, try to frame sentences or responses that are more mature and thoughtful. In this way, the subconscious mind will be convinced and will not trap in negative self-talk.
3. You do not take time for self-care
Now, does self-care seem to be contradictory while manifesting your dreams and desires? But let us remind you, self-care is important when you become a follower of the Law of Attraction. Self-care is not scented candles or a whole day at the most expensive spa. It is recharging your body and mind with sound sleep and taking care of your health with nourishing meals and exercise routines.
When you think too much about goals and aspirations and do not practice self-care, you are stressed out. And this stress does nothing but damage your vibrations and mental and physical health. Hence, wind up each night and take time to recharge and renew your energy levels, so you are refreshed and cheerful the next day.
Self-care is different for different people, but it is certainly not scrolling on social media. It could be taking a walk in Nature or reading a book, or even cooking.
4. You are not motivated to go for your desires
If you want to manifest a life partner because your family wants you to get married asap, then we are sure you are not motivated to do so. Now, people mostly compare hard work with motivation, but it is completely different. You don’t have to put long hours of hard work into your desires. Instead, you need to be motivated and excited about your goals and have a strong reason to achieve them in life.
You can strive to be the best version of yourself, develop a favourable image of yourself in front of others, be dedicated all the time, and believe in your capabilities. Even if you practice a few of these mindsets, you will be motivated to work for your goals.
5. You doubt yourself
As we said earlier, self-doubt is the worst enemy you can have in your life. Let us tell you the truth in bitter words, if you have self-doubt, you destroy your manifestation process. It is okay to have a troublesome past, but it is your past and not your present anymore. You might blame your family or the place you live and doubt your capabilities, but it doesn’t dictate your future. You have the right to abundance, just as everyone has. You define the worth you place in yourself and not others.
Your self-worth cannot be determined by your family or the childhood traumas you had, or the financial condition you have. You can do something that helps you vanish your self-doubt and feel more confident about yourself. It could be spending good time with your loved ones who enrich your thoughts and life. Or it could be even seeking advice from a mental health expert; there is no shame in that.
List out your achievements and the challenges you have gone through, and you will feel more powerful. Use affirmations, and you will feel that the self-doubt is evading away from your mind.
6. You do not take action
Often, people think that they do not need to take action when they practice the Law of Attraction. Hey, one of the core principles of the Law of Attraction is Action. Merely thinking positive is not the key to manifestation. You need to take action.
Now, another popular myth that people have is that they have to do hard work blindly to manifest desires. Come on; you practice the Law of Attraction; it doesn’t mean you need to put in strenuous efforts. Just take the right action and have faith in the Universe, and you will experience the magic soon.
Each day, you should do a physical act that is in alignment with your goals. It could be attending a seminar or making that phone call. It is okay to take baby steps but don’t over-plan. Execute the plan well by taking small actions and doing something that works positively for your goals.
7. You do not have positive emotions towards others
Judging people is necessary only when you need to determine whether they are trustworthy or not. But when you judge others to fulfil your ego desires, you are doing against the manifestation force. When you judge others, you have negative feelings such as jealousy, resentment, anger, and others. When you do this, all you do is attract negative energy from the Universe. Your ego might feel satiated, but you have not done anything positive towards manifestation.
So, instead of judgment, you need to be more loving, caring, understanding, and kind towards others. When you are grateful for others, you attract the same positive emotions from the Universe. Lift people up and be happy when they manifest desires. For example, if your best friend has manifested a life partner recently, you should not be jealous but be happy that she has found the love of her life. Jealousy is the killer of the manifestation process and makes you the worst version of yourself.
Just replace the hate and jealousy with love and gratitude, and you will see the difference soon.
8. You do not trust the Universe
You must have come across a hundred people who have criticized the Law of Attraction and smirked, “It doesn’t work for me.”
It is all because they have just followed the mechanics of this theory and not followed the thought process, emotion, and action stages. As a result, they have not put the desired faith in the Universe, and their language does not align with their thoughts.
If you repeat affirmations 100 times a day but say to yourself, “I don’t think this works for me.” It will never work, we bet. When you are determined and have faith in what you do, and the Universe does for you, manifestation works effectively. When there is faith, there is no way your desires are impossible. They are always possible.
9. You do not express gratitude enough
It is not just the word, ‘thanks,’ it is more than that. Expressing gratitude is like being grateful for the moment, the situation, the person, and the Universe. You don’t need monumental moments to be thankful; just be happy and grateful for the small things you have in your life.
You will notice that the social media feeds will never affect you if you practice gratitude in the right way. When you are grateful and happy towards the Universe, you can hope for more blessings and abundance from the Universe.
10. You are a drama queen or a drama king
Well, if you are involved in drama addiction, you are likely to emit negative emotions towards the Universe. When you are addicted to drama, you develop painful emotions and feelings in your mind so that you feel relieved when you are over them. When you don’t have a concrete purpose or any goal in life, you are prone to do more drama.
It might feel good after it is over, but it is all artificial, and you are not in the manifestation stage. Hence, if you want the blessings of the Universe and be happy in your relationships, then be far from the drama addiction.
11. You dismiss the signs from the Universe
If you do not have faith or are not attentive, it is likely that you will ignore the signs from the Universe or will dismiss them knowingly. You will feel it is silly to see 11:11 or butterflies when you go to the office, but it is the Universe that is communicating with you through them. When you ignore the signs, you also miss the opportunities that come knocking at you.
Remember that the Universe works in unexpected ways, and hence, you should sharpen your gut feeling and understand the behaviour and actions well. Meditate, spend time in nature and be mindful – these are the ways to elevate your gut feeling to notice the signs and synchronicity of the Universe.
In conclusion, these bad habits need to be avoided at all costs for quicker and effective manifestation.
