Did you ever thought about how to manifest friends who are your best companions for life?
Have you ever noticed you bump into a person, experience positive vibes from them, and wish you could have them as friends forever? Moreover, you even get a feeling of having like-minded persons in your life as friends. If you are new in the city right now, or are going through a rough phase in life and have no friends, or you have drifted apart from your friends, you need to know that you can manifest good friends.
When you notice a bad vibe coming out of a person, you can feel that the whole world is like them, and you start noticing more negative people around. This makes you come to the conclusion, “There are no good people out there to make friends.” If this is what happens to you, it is the time to introspect your life.
Recollect the memories when you had the greatest friends. How do you meet them? What were your mindsets when you met each of them? Were you happy? Did you have a good time together? If the answer is all-affirmative, you need to retain the positivity in your mind instead of expressing grudges that they are not with you anymore.
It is okay to have bitter experiences with certain people, but this doesn’t mean you have seen enough, and there is no scope for meeting good friends. In this world, making friends is easy online but making amazing friends still seems to be certainly impossible. Some will say that they are your great friends but will never turn up when you need them. Some will call you only when you need them. Some friends will throw tantrums or will seem constant attention from your side. Some friends will compete with you, will be jealous of you but will never show those negative feelings on your face, and one day, you will realize it in a bad way.
We know that each person is not perfect or is designed for you, but you cannot be friends with whom you don’t share anything common or do not have the same core values. The search for good friends becomes challenging, but you can regain hope with the help of manifestation techniques. The Law of Attraction will help you create and maintain positive relationships and friendships in life without any compromise and make your life more promising and enriched.
Steps to Manifest Great Friends in Your Life
The Law of Attraction is the complete guideline, but we have broken down this concept into steps specially designed to attract and retain great friends in your life.
1. Formulate a strong intention
The process evidently starts with a strong intention. This is the foundation of the manifestation process and needs to be done strongly. You cannot be confused about the whole friend thing; you need to be right about what you want in friends. This step can be easily implemented by putting down your desires and dreams on paper. Write down in the form of affirmations to avoid double-work. Moreover, affirmations work better and faster rather than simple statements.
When you set an intention, your emphasis on the specifications becomes stronger, and you do not divert from your goals in the future. When you are distracted, you can recollect the intention for which you had set goals. Or, when you start manifesting the desires, you can check whether these are aligned with the intention or not. You will be amazed to witness how the Universe is manifesting your desires so vividly with a greater degree of accuracy and seamless efforts.
2. Repeat your affirmations
In the last step, you must have written your desires in the form of affirmations. They need to be in the present tense and should be written as if you have already achieved your desire – amazing friends. You can repeat these affirmations with happiness and joy, the same way when you are in the company of good friends.
Examples of affirmations to attract friends are –
I attract caring, inspiring, and honest friends.
I love spending time with my exceptional friends.
I attract people with positive vibes and good intentions.
Reciting affirmations is simple, but there needs to be a fixed routine for it. For instance, you cannot repeat affirmations when you are feeling miserable or are exhausted with your daily activities. The best time is to repeat when you are feeling fresh and pleasant, and you can focus better. It could be while waiting in a queue or the first thing in the morning.
Remember that discipline is the key to manifestations. You don’t have to be too hard on yourself, but you can set a routine for repeating affirmations.
3. Imagine yourself surrounded by positive friends
It is easy to go back in the past and recollect terrible memories when your friends didn’t treat you right or when you were alone. No matter how lonely and miserable you feel right now, you should visualize the same thing in your mind. Instead, you should visualize good things about your friends to attract them.
Visualization is the act of imagining the desired scenario as if it is happening in real. To manifest great friends, you can visualize that you are with your friends and having a party at your home. You have cooked food, some got the dessert, someone has got the drinks, and you are talking and laughing to the glory. You can even imagine yourself going out for dinner or a trip to the beach where you have immense fun. You can even have dialogues for each of your friends if you are more creative. This might sound a little overboard, but manifestation works better when you are crystal clear and visualize like it is real.
Don’t forget the emotions and feelings. You need to be happy when you visualize. People visualize nice things but sulk at the end, saying, “Hey, why doesn’t this happen to me?” if you end your visualization with a negative thought, all your efforts are in vain. You can feel the excitement, happiness, laughter, and wonderful emotions when you visualize this.
4. Inculcate the qualities of a good friend in yourself
What does a great friend mean to you? Do you want them to be good listeners? Do you want them to be kind and compassionate? Note down what you look for in a friend. Don’t put this list in your mind when you search for friends. Instead, start inculcating all these values in yourself and become a good friend yourself. You don’t have to be the world’s most ideal person to be a good friend. Just understand what a true friend will ask for and be like that.
You don’t have to make huge sacrifices or agree to the values even if you don’t. You can be a good listener, check in often, be kind and compassionate, and spread positivity whenever your friends talk about their dreams. You won’t need to spend money to change your behaviour or inculcate some good friendly values and habits. You can set the standards to expect the same from others. If you want a great friend, you have to be a great friend! Simple!
5. Visit places of your interest to meet like-minded people
If you hate stand-up comedy, but you often go there, there is no way you are going to meet like-minded people. Hence, our suggestion is to visit places where you can find amazing people and have better conversations with them. Even a simple conversation or small talk can help you become great friends eventually. You can list out five things that you like to do. Now, visit the places where you can do those five things.
It could be anything. For instance, if you like to go on hikes or treks, join a trekking group. If you like to write and listen to stories, join a writer’s group or a library association. In this way, you will align with the people that you are on the same level of interest with. You can even join relevant online forums and discussions, and you never know you can meet like-minded people over there.
If you find negative energy at some places, you can cut down your list or change places. Be flexible; your aim should be to do things you love and meet like-minded individuals.
6. Trust your intuition
Whether someone has a positive or negative vibe or is really good to your or not – this feeling can come to your mind when you have a sharpened intuition level. You can figure out the motive of a person when you meet them. If you seek positive vibes from a person, you can experience it, and you need to acknowledge the same. But when you experience negative vibes from a person, you need to register them and not dismiss them.
All these vibes and feelings are nothing but your intuition – your gut feeling. When you practice the Law of Attraction, the Universe will send you signals accordingly. It will alert you or convince you that you are on the right track and what you are feeling is perfectly alright. You will be guided, or you will know that your requests will be heard. When you explore your inner feelings, you can determine these synchronicities, and you can encourage yourself that you have met the right person.
7. Get rid of limiting beliefs
Limiting beliefs is the greatest threat to the manifestation process. When you have limiting beliefs about your friends, the struggle will seem to be long-lasting, and manifestation will never come to the surface. Hence, you need to take an extra initiative to get rid of limiting beliefs that you have adopted since childhood or have built them firmly in recent days. Even the past trauma about friends can make you feel negative about the entire humankind.
You need to do a thorough self-analysis and figure out the limiting beliefs that are holding you back from approaching or making new friends or finding good people in life. Some of them are as follows –
You do not deserve company or great friends.
You make good friends, but you quarrel over some reason and drift away.
You meet all the jerks in life.
You think that nobody likes you or thinks you are full of yourself.
Such limiting beliefs can convert into self-talk and haunt your subconscious mind for years without your knowledge. Hence, you need to acknowledge and let go of all these limiting beliefs and replace them with positive affirmations. Do some background studies of your mind, and you will get to know about so many things?
8. Don’t lose yourself on the journey
To attract great friends, we don’t suggest you be a constant lookout for people and keep visiting places and not enjoying your me-time. Exhibit the real you, and you will attract more similar people in life. You should be a better person and be the original version of yourself and not try to imitate others. You are unique, and you will find an exact similar version like you. Hence, do not look for a duplicate person like you, instead, be yourself and try to find like-minded people with similar values and interests as you.
So, appreciate yourself and trust the Law of Attraction and your manifestation rituals and start the journey of attracting amazing friends in your life. We are sure you will find them and love them.
